Including Fathers in Children’s Healthcare: Why It’s Important

Every parent plays a very important role in their children’s health and growth. Children have better physical and mental health when their parents are involved in their lives. But studies show that fathers tend to be less involved in their children’s medical care than mothers. In fact, mothers are twice more likely than fathers to schedule and go to doctor visits with their children. Going to the doctor with your child and learning about their health are good ways to help them stay healthy.

There are several reasons why it can be harder for fathers to be involved in their child’s healthcare. First, some doctor’s offices are open at times that don’t work well for all parents, and moms may find it easier to call off work for their child’s appointments than dads due to workplace culture and expectations. Some fathers may miss appointments if they can’t access their child’s health records, are not receiving reminder calls/texts for scheduled visits, or don’t know if doctors need to talk with both parents. Even when dads do go to doctor visits, doctors don’t always involve them in the visit, check in about their concerns, or discuss their parenting strategies in the same ways they do with moms. Yet, fathers have a unique effect on child development, separate from mothers, so their involvement is key to help children thrive.

Tips for Fathers on Getting Involved in Children’s Healthcare

As a father, there are many ways to increase your involvement in your child’s healthcare.

1. Attend your child’s doctor visits.

Parents should go to their child’s doctor visits, like check-ups and other health appointments, to build a relationship with your child’s doctor. Knowing your child’s doctor can help your child feel more comfortable in a medical setting and get care that fits their needs. It is best for both parents to take their child to the doctor, especially for visits with a specialist or for mental health, so important medical decisions can be made together. But if it’s hard for both parents to attend a doctor visit, try taking turns with who brings your child to the doctor. Some visits can be done by video via telehealth so both parents can join.

2. Gain access to your child’s MyChart.

MyChart is a free online tool available to all Nationwide Children’s Hospital patients. MyChart helps parents schedule doctor visits, send messages to doctors, and join telehealth video visits. At your child’s next doctor visit, ask to sign up for your child’s MyChart. Each parent with a MyChart account can see when visits are scheduled, get test results, and receive reminders for vaccinations. MyChart makes it easy for both parents to be involved in their child’s healthcare.

3. Speak up at the doctor’s office.

If your child’s doctor only talks to one parent at a visit, speak up! It is important for both parents to ask questions and share their thoughts so your doctor can really understand your child and your family. The doctor can help with questions about your child’s behavior, how they are growing, and how they can do well in school.

By going to visits, asking questions, and using tools like MyChart, parents can work together and help their child stay healthy and grow strong.