Sexting: What Parents Need to Know

In today's digital age, teens have found new ways of communicating with each other. Thanks to a variety of digital platforms, they are able to stay more connected than ever. While the idea of instant connection and the perception of harmless fun may seem appealing to teens, parents must understand the dangers lurking behind the screens.

Sexting, the act of sending or receiving sexually explicit messages, photos, or videos via digital platforms, has become increasingly popular among teens. What may start off as seemingly innocent exchanges can rapidly spiral, leading to serious consequences. Sexting can open the door to exploitation, cyberbullying, and emotional distress. Once an image or message is shared, it's virtually impossible to control its dissemination, potentially impacting teenagers for years to come. There can also be legal consequences for distributing explicit content of minors.

Sexting can also serve as a manipulation tool in unhealthy relationships. Teens can be coerced into sharing explicit content, and then have that content used against them as a means of control or blackmail. This form of digital manipulation can have devastating effects on a teenager's mental health and self-esteem.

Parents play a crucial role in lowering these risks and helping to create a culture of digital responsibility.

1. Open Communication:
   Parents, it's essential to have open, honest conversations with your teens about sexting. Make sure they understand what it is and the risks involved. Let them know that they can come to you with any questions or concerns without fear of judgment.
2. Set Clear Boundaries:
   Work together with your teen to establish clear rules and boundaries for their online behavior. Discuss what is appropriate to share and what is not. Emphasize the importance of respecting themselves and others in their digital interactions.
3. Educate About the Consequences:
   Teach your teen about the potential consequences of sexting, both legally and emotionally. Let them know that it is a form of abuse if anyone, like their partner or an adult, pressures them into sexting or threatens to share their private information unless they send images of a sexual nature (sextortion). They have the right to set their own boundaries and should feel safe and respected in their relationships.
4. Digital Footprint Awareness:
   Remind your teen that anything they share online can have lasting consequences. Once something is sent, it's hard to take back. Encourage them to think carefully before sending anything and to consider how it might affect their future.

Above all, create a supportive environment where your teen feels comfortable coming to you with any issues they may encounter online. By fostering open communication, setting clear boundaries, and providing guidance, you can help your teen navigate the digital world safely and responsibly.

Learn more about technology abuse and ways to support safety and how parents can help support healthy teen relationships. For additional resources and support, visit Green Flags at The Center for Family Safety and Healing.